They have been in your life for the longest. But the one thing I've noticed is that the best friend is hardly in a relationship due to the fact that they current relationship he/she deals with is the one with the best friend. Whenever the best friend gets out of a relationship, you are there to heal the wounds and telling them to move on. You treat your role as the best friend as if it is a career.
Of course it isn't a career, but you begin to think it is because you spend more time with them than you with your own life. Then it finally reaches a point when your life surrounds it completely. Once it's finally time for you to start dating it's very difficult.
After realizing this with not only others, but my own personal and professional life, it got me thinking.
Is the best friend allowed to date when their lives surrounds being the true companion?
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GOSH THIS IS ONE OF THE GREATEST POSTS OR TOPICS SHALL I SAY PRESENTED HERE AT THE FUTURE BLOG!
As for my opinion, No. The best friend is not allowed to date anyone that is not someone drama free or without a conflicting manner. I say that because the first companion always comes to the bestfriend when they have relationship problems n such and it can go on for hours just sharing one event in their lives. So the best friend can not date someone that would have them presenting the same kind of stories or events to the companion because most of the time, they can never comfort or help the best friend like the best friend can them.
basically they would have to date in silence.
but thats my opinion.
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