Showing posts with label Barack Obama. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Barack Obama. Show all posts

Thursday, November 10, 2011

The Obamas Fill The White House with Music

By J9 of J9's MusicLife


President Barack Obama has a great appreciation of music.  He has stated that "music is a great source of joy and solace in the midst of difficult days."  During a evening of poetry, music and the spoken word event held at The White House in 2009, Obama summed it up best. . .
"We're here to celebrate the power of words and music to help us appreciate beauty but also to understand pain.  To inspire us to action and to sear us on when we start to lose hope.  To lift us up out of our daily existence, even if it's just for a few moments."

Both the President and First Lady have a wide range of music tastes.  It has been said that artists like Stevie Wonder, Bob Dylan, Rolling Stones, Earth, Wind, & Fire and even mainstream Rap artists like Lil Wayne and Nas can be found on Barack's iPod while Rihanna, Beyonce, Usher, Robin Thicke, Sara Bareilles, Herbie Hancock, and Anthony David can be found on Michelle's.  Their love for music doesn't stop on their iPods as it has also been reflected in the musical guests they have invited over the years to The White House for several events.


State Dinners

Last month, by the request of the Obamas, Janelle Monae performed during a state dinner to honor South Korean President Lee Myung-bak.  Surprisingly, The Obamas are huge Monae fans and even requested her to perform their favorite song Tightrope.

Others that performed during state dinners were Jazz pianist Herbie Hancock and Beyonce are also others that have been asked to perform for state dinner. 


Evening of Poetry, Music and Spoken Word Events

In 2009, Grammy-award winning artist Esperanza Spalding performed for the second time at The White House for "An Evening of Poetry, Music and the Spoken Word"


Also, click here to view her first White House performance earlier that year during a tribute for Stevie Wonder.

For another poetry event, Michelle invited conscious rapper Common who recited some lines amidst piano accompaniment in front of an audience of children and adults.  View his performance here.  Obama states "...a great poem is one that resonates with us and challenges us and teaches us something about ourselves."  Remember the controversy this caused when people like Sarah Palin classified him as a "gangsta rapper" and didn't think his attendance was appropriate? 



To read the rest of the post, click here.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

YOU MUST VOTE!!!



Cast A History-Making (Not A Fear-Based) Vote!

By Maitefa Angaza



My appeal to Black New Yorkers: Don’t waste a vote that our ancestors died for, but summon some of the courage they displayed. We’re not facing dogs or death, only our consciences. Andrew Cuomo will win without our votes because Carl Paladino hasn’t a snowball’s chance in hell of becoming New York’s next governor. (Do some quick research.)



Meanwhile, Cuomo flaunts his disregard for the Black community. For example, he has the authority to call for a special prosecutor in the murder of Danroy Henry, the young Pace University football player killed by police while sitting in his car. (The local police have already circled the wagons and slandered the victim, so the chances of a fair trial are, as usual, not good.) But Cuomo isn’t going to do address the issue because he doesn’t have to work for the Black vote; he figures he’ll get it anyway.



Remember that major media swore Michael Bloomberg would win reelection as mayor by 18 points. Then they pretended they were “Shocked!” when he won by only 4.58 points after spending $21 million. This was in spite of the Democratic party’s racist lack of support for their own candidate (they didn’t put much energy or money behind Thompson until the very last minute). New York City would have a Mayor Bill Thompson right now if more of us had voted. Instead, too many were victims of a vote-suppression campaign. Let’s not fall for it again, thinking, “What’s the difference?”



Although Cuomo is projected to win by a landslide, you can make a huge difference by voting for Charles Barron. If Barron gets enough votes, the Freedom Party will have permanent ballot status, the first Black-and Latino-led party to accomplish this in the nation’s history. Barron needed only 15,000 signatures to get the Freedom Party on the ballot for this election: he got 43,500! He now needs only 50,000 votes to get the party permanent status, let’s make sure he gets them.



The Green Party got started with only 52,000 votes and the Working Families Party squeaked by with 50,000 (by machine recount). The Freedom Party, co-chaired by longtime activist Jitu Weusi, can easily make its mark if we lift even our little finger to help! Barron and his running mates Eva Doyle (lieutenant governor) and Ramon Jimenez (attorney general) are only the first of many candidates the Freedom Party will run in years to come, candidates who don’t need many millions or wealthy backers in order to make it onto a ballot. Your vote will also demonstrate that we can no longer be taken for granted by the Democratic Party, which revealed its true sentiments toward the Black community by its shameful treatment of Governor David Paterson. True respect is earned.



Turn out to vote and let your vote make a difference!

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Playing The Bigger Game - PART 1

The MEGA World of Lil Mogul
by Lil Mogul

STEP 1: Accept The Fact That You Will Have To Stretch
(And That The Pain Will Be Worth It)

So far, you’ve been paralyzed by at least one big step you have to take because you know – you just know - that it’s going to be incredibly hard or painful or scary. There’s something you need to do, but it’s beyond your comfort zone. And you’ve made the discomfort of taking that next step so big in your mind that there’s no way in hell you’re going to take it.

Guess what? It’s not nearly as scary or painful or destructive than you think. You’re just blowing it out of proportion. Will it be easy? No, of course not. But it won’t be nearly as hard as you think – you’re just seeing it that way because you’re not “all in.” You have one foot on the train that’s going to take you somewhere and one foot on the ground, and it hurts like hell to live life and do business in that situation.

So you need to decide to go all in and do it. But that’s scary. I get it. But I also get how to defuse that feeling of scariness, and it all starts with the first sentence of the first personal development book I ever read. (a book that literally saved my life during a violently traumatic time as a kid)

Life is difficult. This is the great truth, one of the greatest truths … because once we see this truth, we transcend it.” – M. Scott Peck, The Road Less Traveled

Don’t let the word “transcend” make you think this is some fluffy woo-woo thing (and to all my fluffy woo-woo readers, no offense, my friends). By transcend he means “get over it.”

Yeah, life and your business can be difficult. It really is. However, it seems much more difficult than it really is because society is training us to think that it should be easy. Microwave popcorn, drive-throughs, magic pills and American Idol have conditioned us to expect everything to be easy and push button and if it’s not, then oh-crap-what-is-wrong-with-me-I-am-such-a-failure.

That’s why we get livid when someone isn’t doing 10 miles over the speed limit, or the drive-through is slow, or *gasp* Twitter is down. We’re trained to believe that trivial things are difficult, and that the things that are actually kind of challenging – well, that’s impossible. Yeah! This happens to me too, and I have to find someone to kick my booty and read that quote again.

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Here’s the point:
If you wish/expect/hope things should be easy, then getting out of your comfort zone is terrifying and paralyzing and something you will never, ever bring yourself to do it. Goodbye big game. It was nice to pretend I really wanted you.

But if you accept that life and your business is difficult, then it stops being so damned bad. Yeah, it’s a pain sometimes, but you expect it and it’s not so bad simply because you expect it. You know you’ll wince, but you know it’s going to be worth it.

This is the first and most important truth you have to accept if you want To Play The Bigger Game - it’s not going to happen without some uncomfortable stretching. You can’t get there with the muscles that got you here. But you can push yourself, you’ll survive (really), and after you go through the discomfort you’ll be stronger on the other side.


When Omaba was three, he was riding his tricycle at the playground, and he was complaining about how hard it was to go up the less-than-gentle incline. He was worried he wouldn’t be able to go there often on his trike because it was just too hard. So his mother told him the truth: If he just stuck it out today, then his legs would get a little bit stronger, and tomorrow would be a little easier. And then the next day it would be even easier, and so on, until it wasn’t a big deal anymore.

Most kids would have shrugged it off or complained some more. But not him. He actually pedaled slower, so it would be harder, and so he would build up his muscles faster. Holy crap! The kid was three and he was already upping his game.

What if you had that same attitude? What if you decided the temporary pain or discomfort was just a natural part of the process, and that going through it wasn’t “hell,” but just the dues you have to pay to come out stronger on the other side?
You’d Play a much Bigger Game, that’s what.

So why aren’t you? You most defuse the programming that has tricked you into thinking that the challenge of personal and business growth should be feared instead of devoured.

Game on!!! Until next week..

Tuesday, November 24, 2009

50th Anniversary of MOTOWN

Black ties and gowns filled a ballroom Saturday in a big-bucks salute to Detroit-style royalty — the King of Motown, the Queen of Soul and the Kid of Rock.

Motown Records founder Berry Gordy, along with Aretha Franklin, Kid Rock and Motown's original kid, Stevie Wonder, came to Motown's original hometown for the Motown 50 Golden Gala. The 50th-anniversary event, which fetched $350 and up for a ticket, was a fundraiser for the Motown Historical Museum. The museum was the original home of Motown Records Corp., which Gordy started with an $800 loan.


The event drew about 750 people and many of the big names and behind-the-scenes people from the label, which moved to Los Angeles in 1972. Detroit's output included scores of hits, including "My Girl" by The Temptations, "The Tears of a Clown" by Smokey Robinson and the Miracles, and "I Heard it Through the Grapevine" by Marvin Gaye."The pleasure is mine to be here," Gordy said during a pre-concert reception. "I'm thrilled I got the nurturing and all of the things Detroit had to offer me. Motown could not have made it in any other city."

Gordy was joined on the red carpet earlier in the evening by local and national celebrities and dignitaries, including Otis Williams of the Temptations, which was on the bill; Claudette Robinson of the Miracles; the Rev. Jesse Jackson; comedian Sinbad, the event's host; and Detroit Mayor and former Detroit Pistons all-star Dave Bing. The musical mingling of classic Motown artists such as Wonder and The Temptations with non-Motown hometown heroes Franklin and Rock reveals the reverence for and relevance of the label.Kid Rock performed with Wonder on the Motown great's songs "Living For The City" and "Superstition," bringing many of the people in the crowd to their feet. The pair called up others for the finale — a funky, extended version of "Signed, Sealed, Delivered, I'm Yours."Before taking the stage, Kid Rock called it a "career milestone." He said his mother, who was out of state, sent him a text message: "Who would have thought when we were partying in our barn, playing all those Motown records when you were a kid that you'd be playing the 50th gala?"

The gala is a regular event for the museum, but it took a higher profile this year to mark the 50th anniversary of the label's founding. Museum CEO Audley Smith said the facility wants to expand to hold thousands of artifacts and memorabilia that can't be displayed because of space, but he stressed the museum will maintain the integrity of the well-known Hitsville USA house on West Grand Boulevard. The gala also included special tributes to Motown alumni who have died, including Michael Jackson. Gordy, at Jackson's memorial service in July, talked about the 10-year-old prodigy he signed, calling him "the greatest entertainer that ever lived."Homecomings are rare these days for Gordy, who lives in California, but bonds remain: His sister, Esther Gordy Edwards, founded the museum now overseen by his great-niece, Robin Terry. He's also a premier sponsor of the gala.

President Barack Obama sent well wishes via videotape. He said Gordy's "music made history" and his record company "captured a truly American sound."Franklin sang a customized birthday ode to Gordy, who turns 80 on Nov. 28."Detroit, we've waited long enough — Berry's come home at last," she sang. Afterward, Franklin ushered Gordy to the stage, saying "he absolutely revolutionized the music industry, single-handedly."

He was presented a crystal plaque, a large cake and a mass serenade of "Happy Birthday."Gordy told the crowd he was inspired by his time spent on a Detroit auto factory floor to make a music company that was like "an assembly line" of talent. "That dream came true." Wonder told The Associated Press after the concert that being a part of Gordy's vision has been a blessing."I'm just very, very happy (for) that dream Berry had — him meeting me, hearing me, seeing me, that he saw fit for me to be a part of that dream that became reality."

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Real Open Talk For Life with WJC

Rebuild the Walls of Our Community
By: Rev. W. Jeffrey Campbell, Houston, TX

If you tuned in last week you will remember that we discussed the necessity of focusing more on the people doing the work than those who refuse to do the work. Chapter 3 is composed of 32 verses of which 31.5 are dedicated to describing who was working and where they were working. As I pondered conversations and meetings from this week that I have been privy to, I have returned to my own wonderment…what work needs to be done in our African American GLBT community and who is assuring that the work is being done.

It was my every intent to move into Nehemiah 4 for today’s study. However, I have found myself lingering in chapter 3 amazed by the work that the people of Jerusalem did in an effort to rebuild the wall and restore their city.

Here is a glimpse of chapter 3:

Ø “Eliashib the high priest and his fellow priests went to work and rebuilt the Sheep Gate.” Vs. 1
Ø “The Fish Gate was rebuilt by the sons of Hassenaah.” Vs. 3
Ø “The Jeshanah Gate was repaired by Joiada son of Paseah and Meshullam son of Besodeiah.” Vs. 6
Ø “Uzziel son of Harhaiah, one of the goldsmiths, repaired the next section; and Hananiah, one fo the perfume makers, made repairs next to that.” Vs. 8
Ø “The Valley Gate was repaired by Hanum and the residents of Zanoah.” Vs. 13
Ø “Beyond them, Benjamin and Hasshub made repairs in front of their house; and next to them, Azaniah, made repairs beside his house.” Vs. 23

In order for complete restoration to occur, walls needed to be rebuilt. There were gates that needed to be rebuilt. There were towers that needed to be rebuilt. There were even individual residences that needed to be rebuilt. The work needed to be done and it did get done.

In 21st century Black Gay America what areas of our lives and communities need to be rebuilt in order for this community, our community to flourish in a healthy way?

The Black Church: Many African American same-gender loving individuals, like myself, are rooted in the church. In order for the mainstream church to be fully equipped to minister to who we are in totality, Black church leaders are going to have to move beyond the archaic misinterpretation of scripture and embrace God loves us all and accepts us all without regard to who we love. In many instances it is not because our spiritual leaders don’t know better, they are just not ready to accept the financial fall-out that may occur if they move towards becoming fully inclusive. However tedious it may be, educated and empowered leaders of the Black GLBT community must partner with Black church leaders to usher in this necessary movement to and insure its completion. There is only one table and Christ has set the table for all to sit and be fed. Who will step up to the task of building this new paradigm?

Same-Gender Relationships: Too often I lament with my same-gender loving friends regarding our inability to enter into and maintain a healthy relationship. Why? Why? Why? Why does it seem so hard to achieve this goal? I know I’m as cute as 99% of my friends who are in relationships! I have a job! I have my own home and my own car! Okay, this is not about me! Could it be that even though we are embracing who we are completely, we still hang onto baggage that causes us to believe that we can’t have a healthy long-term relationship? We need more people working on this wall, equipping our community to not only enter into healthy relationships but to stay in them and keep them healthy. Let me know when the class is starting! I don’t want to put up another Christmas tree by myself! LOL!

Inter-Community Hatred: Let’s be real with this thing! Sometimes much of our pain as members of the African American same-gender loving community does not come from the heterosexual community. It comes from our fellow gay brothers and sisters. Words and actions filled with hatred. Lies…truths that are not anyone else’s business…the unnecessary disclosure of someone’s HIV status…rolling up on someone’s partner… The list goes on and on. The question is: who is going to take on the task to correcting this madness? If this type of behavior does not stop we will self-destruct and the blood of those who have fought publically and privately will have been in vain.

As I look at Nehemiah 3 again I see the solution to our issues throughout. First, we all are assigned to get our own houses in order and it is no better time than that present. Secondly, there are so many who are gifted to be community builders and community educators. Let’s accept the task and get to work. How do we respond to this call?

Not to brag on Houston but, I do believe that 2009 has been a very good year for my home city in regards to getting the walls rebuilt. Here are some of the things that are happening right now:

Ø The Men’s Gathering—a dialogue group for African American same-gender loving men
Ø One Voice—a brain child of The Men’s Gathering that is composed of same-gender loving men and women
Ø Brothers Speaking—a dialogue group and book club for African American same-gender loving men
Ø HeART and Soul—a monthly spoken word and visual artist social event that targets members of the African American same-gender loving community
Ø Progressive Open Door Christian Church, Through Him Fellowship—Open and Affirming churches with a worship setting that attracts African Americans
Ø The Fusion Program—a HIV/AIDS prevention program for young African American same-gender loving men between the ages of 16 and 24
Ø Brothers Speaking—a large group dialogue event focusing on the needs of African American same gender loving men of all ages.

All of these groups, organizations and events are designed to rebuild the walls of our community. None are perfect but, all move with the intention of overcoming stigma, self-hatred and homophobia.

It does not end here. There is much more work to be done. Again, the question is asked of you, “What role will you play in this mammoth project? It’s your time to put on your work gloves, pick up your hammer and start the work.


Until next week…ROTFL with WJC!

Please contact me at
realopentalkforlife@yahoo.com for further discussion.

Monday, October 19, 2009

JR Rolley is bringing Sexy Back!



When most people see a sexy face they think attitude comes along with it. I am so excited to feature one of the sexiest actors and models that I have ever worked with in my career. JR Rolley is the new face that has trail blazed in film, television, and fashion. Just recently he was recognized internationally for his sex appeal and I am thrilled to dish with this humble, sweet, funny and very talented individual who plays my love interest on Christopher Street. JR Rolley puts away any myths about sexy men and he shows a softer side of the bad boy next door, here is what JR had to say.



Who would you say is the sexiest man alive? I have to say with all due Respect President Obama, The way he handles himself under pressure is remarkable and I think quite sexy. I will leave it at that...not going where Tyson Beckford went recently.

What was the first thing you thought when you found out you were named the sexiest man alive in DNA Magazine? well this is their "Sexiest Man Alive" edition and I was only one of the seventy men selected to be in this issue. But I honestly was like wow this is an international publication that notice a guy from the Bronx...made me smile*

Who were some of the other men that were featured in the story? That's the great part DNA "Sexiest Man Alive " edition features not just Actors and Models but Political Figures, Athletes, Musicians, Fashion Designers, Porn Stars, straight and gay. Darryl Steven is on page 81 and I was happy but not surprised to see Hugh Jackman.

How many men of color were included? I would say about seven or eight but understand DNA is based in Australia however has readership in all of Europe, The UK, U.S. and Canada

What is sexy? It's all pretty relative...it's can be attitude, the way someone holds you or let you hold them, in a kiss, smell or walk. It can be in your swagger depending on your delivery.

What do you do to keep your sexy up? SEXY? I think I clean up well but I don't think I'm sexy. I'm an Actor I can portray certain things at any given time but it's not real. I go to the gym often and take care of myself like I should because I love me...and as we get older you have to step up how you care for you..that is what my blog (MIND BODY& SOUL) is about.

Who is your favorite photographer to work with? Why? Maya Guez is brutal, candid and a perfectionist. She has worked with Boris, John Legend and Trey Songz after leaving her session you think you were in a marathon, she works you out but the results "perfection" ...go to mayaguezphoto.com and see for yourself!

Growing up how did you view yourself? My MOM always instilled confidence...so I was always believed in me and was so eager to go into Manhattan and show off, just show what I can do

What do you find most sexy in women? Curves hands down...only a beautiful woman can just silence a room when she walks in.

What is a basic workout routine that someone can do to stay fit and get sexy for the winter? I swear by the ab wheel...it will be amazing for your core, arms and back. Also very inexpensive, you can do it while you watch TV and you can travel with it(no room for excuses with this device)

What is the inspiration behind your blog? MIND BODY & SOUL is the title of it and these three attributes have to be nourished as we get older. It features fitness tips, entertainment and politics. In addition People always ask me about what really happens on set -like what is Marcus Patrick like? or ask me what do I do to stay in shape? so this away to stay connected to the few people who always wished me well through my career.

Where can we get more JR and get a copy of DNA magazine? My website is JR-OnTheVerge.com and The issue I'm featured in is the November issue #116 "The Sexiest Man Alive"edition I'm on page 71 will be available Oct 16th at Barnes & Nobles, Borders or if you are in a major city any magazine store!

Friday, October 9, 2009

President Obama's Winning (Yet, Controversial) Week


With less than 200 days into his presidency, President Barack Obama's role has already seen many triumphant landmark events since his inauguration as America's first Black president. However, each of those milestones face much criticism, and often times controversy. From his influence in having Chicago as the last U.S. city consider for the 2016 Olympics to the appointment of Sonia Sotomayor as America's first Supreme Court Judge, each successful move has been largely scrutinized.

Count his two most achievements below as acts that have garnered much criticism. While there are only a few who are hesitant to his recent appointment of an openly gay ambassador due to his slowness in reaching to the gay and lesbian community, it is his receipt of the Nobel Peace Prize that has sparked worldwide opposition who has seen Obama as a new leader who has yet to prove his worth. Read the two story excerpts below to catch Obama's recent milestones.

President Barack Obama won the 2009 Nobel Peace Prize on Friday in a stunning decision designed to encourage his initiatives to reduce nuclear arms, ease tensions with the Muslim world and stress diplomacy and cooperation rather than unilateralism.

Many observers were shocked by the unexpected choice so early in the Obama presidency, which began less than two weeks before the Feb. 1 nomination deadline and has yet to yield concrete achievements in peacemaking.

Some around the world objected to the choice of Obama, who still oversees wars in Iraq and Afghanistan and has launched deadly counter-terror strikes in Pakistan and Somalia.

The Norwegian Nobel Committee countered that it was trying "to promote what he stands for and the positive processes that have started now." It lauded the change in global mood wrought by Obama's calls for peace and cooperation, and praised his pledges to reduce the world stock of nuclear arms, ease American conflicts with Muslim nations and strengthen the U.S. role in combating climate change.

The peace prize was created partly to encourage ongoing peace efforts but Obama's efforts are at far earlier stages than past winners'. The Nobel committee acknowledged that they may not bear fruit at all.

"He got the prize because he has been able to change the international climate," Nobel Committee chairman Thorbjoern Jagland said. "Some people say, and I understand it, isn't it premature? Too early? Well, I'd say then that it could be too late to respond three years from now. It is now that we have the opportunity to respond — all of us."


President Barack Obama said Wednesday he planned to nominate an openly gay lawyer as the U.S. ambassador to New Zealand and Samoa. If confirmed by the Senate, David Huebner would become the third openly gay ambassador in U.S. history and the first pick by this administration. In a statement released from the White House, Obama said he looked forward to working with Huebner and is confident he will represent the United States well in the Pacific region.

Huebner is based in Shanghai, where he handles international arbitration and mediation cases for a U.S. firm. A graduate of Princeton University and Yale Law School, he is also the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation’s general counsel and previously served on the group’s board.

He also has chaired the California Law Revision Commission, served as president of the Los Angeles Quality and Productivity Commission and taught at the University of Southern California’s Gould School of Law.

Obama’s announcement is a gesture just days before he speaks to a gay rights fundraising dinner on Saturday and gay activists march on Washington on Sunday.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Small Business Likes Obama's Plan after Six Months

Obama's $15 billion plan loosens credit gets high marks from entrepreneurs.
Obama's Small Business Stimulus Plan - Start Your Small Business With Obama's Stimulus Package


If you have been struggling with trying to stay in business, you're not alone. The slow economy has been responsible for affecting the lives of millions, for the US and everywhere else. Entrepreneurs and small-business owners who groaned about corporate government bailouts received word in March of this year that President Obama announced a plan to inject $15 billion into the small-business loan market. He has seen what homeowners, companies, and consumers are going through, and put forth a $787 billion stimulus in February of 2009 to promote economic growth.

Among those who are pegged to receive assistance through funding and the addition of jobs include scientific research groups, schools, energy programs, Medicaid, and contractors. But what about small business owners? Are you eligible? How do you go about the application process?

The good news is that since everyone is facing financial strains, the Stimulus has a program that targets small businesses. Receiving assistance can make the difference in having your company rise above to the level of bigger corporations with whom you might have been finding difficult to compete. Here's what you can do to benefit from the Stimulus:
The Small Business Administration (SBA) has come up with a way for you to be guaranteed for up to a $35,000 loan without having to pay for it for up to 12 months. They have $426,000,000 in government funding to use toward helping small businesses like yours, so that it keep you from losing your company.

Have high interest rates kept you from obtaining a
loan in the past? You no longer have to worry about that. Under the Stimulus, you are able to refinance a small business loan of up to $10,000,000 if it was issued before the Stimulus went into affect. Did you know that you can increase your company's private capital or investments from 300% or $15 million, depending on the lesser amount, to 300% or $150 million as the maximum? This will enable your business to become established in the marketplace and local community, so that you can continue to grow your business using Stimulus money for marketing, professional development, or applying the funds to areas of your company that need it most.

For tips and facts about how you can benefit from
Obama's Home Stimulus Plan - or to find out if you qualify, visit the no nonsense home stimulus guide: http://ObamasStimulusPackage.net
This video was posted one month before Obama was elected President

Saturday, August 22, 2009

How Dare You Suggest That?

How Dare You Suggest That?

by Nathan James

I awoke this morning to a report describing the opposition, by some prominent Black clergymen, to the proposed repeal of the Defense Of Marriage Act (DOMA). The Rev. Dr. LaSimba Gray was also quoted in the New York Times as saying he, and members of his Black Coalition against Gay Marriage, were against the repeal of DOMA, and equality for gays and lesbians. “In all my 40 years of civil-rights work, I’ve never seen a gay water fountain and I’ve never seen a gay entrance to a building.” In a post on political blogger Taylor Siluwe’s website, further commentary indicates that Gray’s members were “offended” by the idea that the “black and gay communities are somehow connected”.


Now, I have written in the past that the LGBT and black communities were not only connected with one another, but that both owe each other all the benefits they enjoy today. For this, of course, I have been flogged unmercifully, as if it were set in stone somewhere that blacks and gays were mutually exclusive, and never the twain shall meet. At the risk of more public flogging, I stand by my position, and I enlist the historical record to aid in my defense. I think that the record speaks very well for itself.


It’s 1955, Rosa Parks has defied Jim Crow and refused to give her seat on a Montgomery bus to a white person, as the law required in those days. In response to her arrest, the local black community turned to a 26-year-old minister of the Ebenezer Baptist Church, Martin Luther King, Jr. Meetings are held to devise a plan of action. Seeking guidance and direction on how to find the most effective means of protest, Rev. King looks to one Bayard Rustin, a black, gay advocate and strategist whose writings on nonviolence have impressed the young preacher. The fact that Rustin is gay, does not discourage King one iota. King knows that Rustin is the go-to man in matters of protest and petition.


Rustin travels to meet with King that year, and the counsel King receives from a gay man of color is crucial to the birth of the modern civil-rights movement, and establishes nonviolence as the means of protest. Rustin thus changes the course of history, and all people of color who live today, free of Jim Crow’s awful depredations, may add Rustin’s name to those to be thanked for their efforts.


Two years later, American literary icon James Baldwin writes and publishes the homoerotic novel Giovanni’s Room, establishing himself as a gifted writer of early gay lit. The book is banned from publication in the United States, but becomes a wild bestseller in Europe. Baldwin becomes known as both a gifted author of color and a gay man. These facts, however, do not deter Rev. King from seeking out and including Baldwin prominently in the civil-rights struggle during the 1960s. The FBI, in an attempt to separate King from men like Baldwin and Rustin, quietly warns King that both men are gay. King replies “I will not refuse the help of such wise and gifted men. As much as anyone, they have given our cause meaning and direction.” When his words are picked up by the Associated Press, the nominating committee for the Nobel Peace Prize begins to understand that here is a man worthy of their accolades.


These are matters of undeniable fact, available for research by anyone with an Internet connection and an interest in the historical record. In spite of this, people continue to have the attitude that I speak heresy, whenever I cite the record. It is a mystery to me why so many people of color are “offended” by the idea that blacks and gays might ever share commonalities in their history. Gay men and women of color have contributed so much to the advancement of all people of color, that they are inextricably linked to the shared history of both. Conversely, people of color, through their tenacious and diligent struggles for equality, have opened the doors of tolerance for the LGBT community which would have remained locked, perhaps indefinitely.


In my studies of the art and literature of the civil-rights era, I find so many contributions to black history by gays and lesbians of color, it’s amazing. The great examination of the black experience of those days comes alive in the works of Langston Hughes, Paul Robeson, Audre Lorde, James Baldwin, and numerous others. Their cries for social justice, together with the activities of Martin Luther King, Stokely Carmichael, Jesse Jackson, Andrew Young, Rosa Parks, and the whole roll call of the era, all suggest a great need for acceptance of diversity. The sexual orientation of any or all of these great people was not an issue. Achieving the equality promised by our Constitution was the issue.


So, “how dare I suggest” a common history between people of color and the gays and lesbians among them? What issue do I address that is so uncomfortable to some? Perhaps there has never been a “gay water fountain”, or a “gay building entrance”. Yet there were barriers to equality for gays every bit as formidable as the legal and structural barriers faced by blacks under Jim Crow. There was a time when sodomy laws forbade homosexual activity in all but two states. There was a time when homosexuality was considered a mental illness by the American Psychiatric Association. There were no visible, structural barriers for gays because gays were considered to be deviant, criminal, and antisocial by their very existence, regardless of their color.


As people of color suffered under Jim Crow’s reign of subjugation and terror, gays of color suffered those hardships, plus the added stigma of being black and gay. To this day, debate rages over the need for, and type of, legal protection gays and lesbians should receive. This brings me back to the beginning of this essay. Legislation such as the Gender Employment Non-Discrimination Act (GENDA) and the repeal of DOMA are needed to afford the Constitutional guarantee of equal protection under the law. For people of color to wish denial of these protections to a subset of their own community, is appalling. Some people are quick to deny the struggle, perseverance and triumph of those who came before them, and whose history they all share. In so doing, they diminish the value of the whole enterprise. How dare I suggest that!

Friday, July 17, 2009

Asking for What You Want!!!

Asking for What You Want!!!

I am on the phone NOW…

Most people don’t always fully realize that we all have within us the ability to co-create our lives with the universe. So many of us are taught to accept what we are given and not even to dream of anything more. But our hopes and dreams are the universe whispering to us, planting an idea of what’s possible while directing us toward the best use of our gifts. The universe truly wants to give us our hearts’ desires, but we need to be clear about what they are and ask for them.
Photo Courtesy of Dexstar G The Peoples Photographer

To ask for something does not mean to beg or plead from a place of lack or unworthiness. It’s like placing an order—we don’t need to beg the salesperson for what we want or prove to them that we deserve to have it. It is their job to give us what we ask for; we only have to tell them what we want. Once we have a clear vision of what we desire, we simply step into the silent realm where all possibilities exist and let our desires be known. Whatever methods we use to become still, it is important that we find the quiet space between our thoughts.


From that still and quiet place, we can announce our intentions to the pure energy of creation. By imagining all the details from every angle, including scent, color, and how it would feel to have it, we design our dreams to our specifications. Similar to dropping a pebble into a pond, the ripples created by our thoughts travel quickly from this place of stillness, echoing out into the world to align and orchestrate all the necessary details to bring our desires into manifestation. Before leaving this wonderful space to come back to the world, release any attachment to the outcome and express gratitude. By doing this daily, we focus our thoughts and our energy while regularly mingling with the essence that makes it possible to build the life of our dreams.


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