Thursday, November 19, 2009

Notes from Nathan: I don't know what to say


re you one of those people who want to say something to someone else but are sometimes at a loss for words?  Well, I'm here to tell you that if you know the English language, there is no such thing.  People have been saying that they are at a loss for words for as long as I can remember and my take on that is.  SAY IT OUT LOUD and work through it.  I have found that saying what you feel out loud, breaks the ice and it also put the other person at ease.  We get caught up in wanting to say the right thing in our daily situations, and there really is no 'right thing', we put too much pressure on ourselves.  Don't overthink!

If you are in a situation and you seek to gain the attention of the other person, take the risk and approach that person.  Have fun with it.  Start with a joke or a compliment.  Ask them how they are doing.  We live in a world that is fastly changing our social skills.  I recently found out that young adults aren't learning the art of manuscript.  I learned how to write in the 2nd grade.  I was told that since we have emails and texting, that the students don't need to learn to write.  That's a no pass for me.  How will these young people grow up to crafting their signatures to sign their checks?  Will the art of letter writing someday be a thing of the past?

The next time you are 'at a loss for words'...  Simply make your way through it by saying "I would really like to have a conversation with you, I don't care what it's about but I'm starting with "Hello!"


I challenge you to begin new conversations with people you don't know.  You may learn something new about yourself and definitely the other person.  Get out there and have fun!  LIVE!



Me -N- My Gay Son with Lady D


1.  What would you say you are most proud of about yourself to date?  I am most proud to be a strong independent black women.  I am proud to able to provide for myself in the simplest way, having the bare essentials of survival keeps me grounded.   Even though, I'm going through a few set backs "Still I Rise" for this to shall pass.  Lastly, I am proud yet humbled to have joy, peace and love through my faith in Jesus Christ as my Savior.

2.  What would you say you are most proud of about me to date?  This question makes me emotional and tears fall from my eyes.  What I am most proud about you in this space in time, is that you are a survivor.  You have gone through so many different cycles of ups and downs in your life and yet you hold tight.  I am proud of your creativity, your leadership, your patience, your kindness and thoughtfulness.  I am proud that you can turn one's sadness to laughter.  Oh, I could go on and on (mother's love, mother's love).  Lastly, I am proud that you have the capability to empower others.

3.  How did you respond when you first heard that my father was murdered?  I couldn't believe it!  I was totally devastated.  Losing someone once loved dearly hurts.

4.  If you could change one thing from your past what would it be?  There is something I would change but it is personal.  I can't disclose it.  When we have our one on one time, I'll share with you.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Arts.Advocacy+Wellness: "Cornelius speaks with Bobby Jones of SON OF ELLIS"


So again FutureForward and A.A+W fans, this is Art Month, and I have nice treat for you today. Yes, I'm featuring an A.A+Wsome artist in homage to Art Month.  I've been holding onto this interview for over a month now.  I just felt it was perfect timing to feature this amazing talent for our Art Month.  The amazing talent I'm speaking of is Mr. Bobby Jones (not the Gospel Recording Artist - I'm a fan of his as well), however, I'm speaking of the Visual Artist, Bobby Jones, who is the mastermind behind SON OF ELLIS.  He's a self-taught digital artist, Tennessee based, whose work is rooted in realism with influences of today's pop culture.  
I think you'll enjoy this read today.  Also, check out an amazing example of  his artwork below. Itmay remind you of someone very familiar .  
photo by Studio Two Eleven

Where are you from and how did you get your start as a visual artist?
I am from a small town in Mississippi, Holly Springs,which is about one hour away from Memphis.  Growing up I was always interested in drawing and art as far back as the age of three . I remember my first drawings being very crude and stick figures, and my grandmother showing me how to correctly draw the human figure. We lived in a very rural part of Ms. so art was like my getaway, to other places. My grandmother also made her own clothes and a lot of my fashion designs at the time . 


Tell us a little about Son of Ellis's birth and its core mission.

In high school, I would always help with set decorations or parade floats and signs, anything that needed an artistic flair. I decided that I was going to be a fashion designer around this time, so I made up a name for myself, Boulovani and that name held for quite a few years. I decided in late 2006 that I had to change my direction, because of a lot of things that I wanted to happen weren't happening. I changed my name to Son of Ellis and focused more on digital artwork, sort of a New Millennium Andy Warhol. I still do my fashions and 
I'm working on a doll fashion line actually. I also felt that people of color were not getting enough exposure, so I focused my art on the people who I felt needed to be seen and who are featured in all of my books.


As a visionary where do you plan to take your art?
I enjoy art, and music. I just want to keep drawing and keeping listening to music. I cannot sing though, but when I draw I have to have my music to inspire me. I would like to take my art wherever God allows me. In the past, I always tried to forge my own path, but I realize that sometimes you have to allow God to guide your steps as you make a difference in the World we live in.



Vibrant portraits and the use of color is prominent in your work, can you share with us the connection to color and the use of African American subjects in your work?
 I think that African American people are beautiful, gorgeous and Vibrant. I wanted to reflect that 

in my work. The diversity and the strength of African American People is very powerful.  It's important that we realize this and embrace the possibilities .


For those of us who are not familiar with the art genre of 'realism' please share the meaning of that term?

I don't per-say, think that my art would be considered as "realism". I keep it pretty simple in regards to the overall image. I want the colors to speak for themselves and it's important to me that the eyes stand out , as well . I want people to be drawn in when they look at my work. My work has been referred to as "realism" in the past, but I think its more  the vibrancy and the stark cleanness of it which makes it stand out.  

What's next for Son of Ellis?
In 2006 my work was featured on BetJ's Soul Sessions and  in several magazines.  I would like to continue along that path. I have five coffee table books available and I'd like to do more. I would also like to do more fashion design.




Specifically speaking about Bobby Jones.  What inspires you on a daily basis?  And what is your Vision, for your life, in the next 5 years?
I'm inspired by everyday things, the sky, grass and people. I always watch what is going on around me. If, we were to just sit still sometimes and take in the beauty of the world around us, there would be a whole lot more artists. As for the next five years, I want to continue creating,inspiring and growing. Making a Million, wouldn't hurt either..LOL



This a Future favorite question...name one guilty pleasure
Just one? LOL  I guess , shopping. I have stuff everywhere, clothes, music, art. I need to downsize in all the above categories.

SON OF ELLIS , formerly known as Boulovani, is a popular Tennessee based contemporary digital artist who has garnered much recognition for his passion for art. Self taught,his work deals in realism and is full of feeling , inspiration, and depth.SON OF ELLIS' art is reflective of today's pop culture. He is most known for his vibrant portraits and use of color. His preferred mediums are a combination of pencil and ink, which he then digitizes to color. You may also view his work at sonofellis.com.


Bobby Jones


facebook-son of ellis
myspace-son of ellis




So who is that guy in the picture?


Well that's all from my end.  See you next Wednesday and have an A.A+Wsome day!


Arts.Advocacy+Wellness: "Turn Your Pain into Art"




Art that Heals and Transforms the Soul:
a meeting with Artist and Healing Survivor - Osvaldo Perdomo



My motto for life is: "Turn Your Pain into Art," whether it's physical, emotional, or mental pain I believe it can go through a healing transformation by actively using the creative arts to heal the soul.  I feel, as an HIV positive individual, who has suffered emotional abuse and depression, that I'm living proof of this notion of "Art and its Healing Power."  Art (visual, performance, literary, and design) has the personal power to heal us internally and externally.  It has the possibility to heal beyond the personal and individual, extending to larger socio-cultural and social-political dynamics.  Let me not exclude the creative and artistic powers of cooking and sewing.  These too are powerful creative acts that can heal and transform the soul.  Heal through your Pain and
Turn it into Art.

 

I recently attended a powerful art exhibit, hosted by Gay Men's Health Crisis (GMHC) and the Leslie/Lohman Gay Art Foundation - "Art & AIDS: Living for the Moment."  Overly pumped to grab a great transformative story to share with FutureForward and A.A+W fans, I invited my good friend Nathan SEVEN Scott to cover this event with me.  

Truthfully, I knew it would be a moving event, however, I didn't expect to meet so many brave souls.  One brave soul in particular, was Osvaldo Perdomo.  Osvaldo, fearlessly shared his journey to becoming the artist that he is today. HIV positive and never having drawn nor technically trained in art, his collection consisted of original hand painted portraits that were developed out of the weekly therapeutic art classes as part of GMHC's Volunteer Work and Wellness Center.  The painting reflected his journey of healing emotionally and physically while living with HIV.  There were over 130 works of art, all displayed by artists who are living with HIV/AIDS.  The body of work was stunning and it was powerful to witness the effects of artistic transformation for the artists, personally, and the spectators at the exhibit.  The exhibition humbly provided the powerful engagement of destigmatizing people living with HIV/AIDS, it also showed
its transcending transformative powers to the larger socio-political dynamics.

So grateful for this experience, and grateful for having met Mr. Osvlado Perdomo, and hearing his story.  Thanks to GMHC, the Leslie/Lohman Gay Art Foundation, and a special thanks to Osvaldo, who also was the co-curator of this event.  Now how powerful is that!






Thanks for reading on this A.A+Wsome Wednesday.  
More to follow next Wednesday.
Now tune into Torya and Her Notes on Ubuntu

and for up to date information on my works and my journey with FlagBoy
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